In 1 Corinthians 1:17-31 Paul went on to tell us that people make two kinds of foolish demands on the Lord. “The Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom” (1 Corinthians 1:22). He is talking about the two kinds of people — those in the family of God (the Jews), and those outside the family of God (the Gentiles). We know that there are two kinds of people in the family of God — the saved and the lost (Romans 9:6), but there are also two kinds of people not in the family of God — the unsavable and the not-yet-saved (Luke 2:32).
So how do we eliminate women and law? We start with the community of women. We start by recognizing abuse, we recognize it in ourselves, our sisters, our friends, our neighbors, our coworkers. Then, we talk about it. Bring it out in the open. People are so guarded about discussing these ugly realities in our lives that they are never brought to light. If we choose to ignore or deny it, we can never eliminate it.
Clara found safety in the arms of cowboy star, Rex Bell. The couple married and moved to a remote ranch in Searchlight, Nevada. Clara recuperated at the ranch and soon felt strong enough to return to work.
Then find a way that will allow you to relax. Because there will be occasions when you’re exposed to violence even if you were planning to avoid it. Trailers for shows on television or at the cinema often sneak up on you like that. Closing your eyes and muting the volume at home (or, better yet, using the fast forward button on your TIVO) can help reduce the effect.
The more you can do such as collecting evidence and keeping a diary of the stalker’s movements the quicker the police may be able to charge them. Hard as this may sound you have to realize that a stalker is relentless and often will not stop until they arrested. I urge you to dig deep and find the strength to fight back.
Clara Bow, with her heart shaped face, cupid-bow lips and flaming red hair was the original “it Girl.” There is no real definition for “It Girl,” but everyone knows it when they see it. Reportedly, Clara Bow bestowed her “It Girl” status on a young starlet named Marilyn Monroe. Since Marilyn Monroe, a blond bombshell of Hollywood, died, there have been other “It Girls.” “It Girl” status has been bestowed on the young party girls who come and go through Hollywood, such as Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan.
Years later, that same body – or person – meets a future spouse. Let us suppose he is male. He has this recording in his reactive mind of when his mother was pregnant and hit, but this reactive recording does not get activated and restimulated until he gets married. Before he is married his reactive mind recording lies dormant. This is because the then current environment was not similar to the environment of when his mother was injured. However, as soon as he got married his environment changed. His new wife speaks just like his mother, his reactive mind kicks in to the perceived threat, and he reacts to her just as his father did, with violence.
If you have to, contact a women’s shelter or counseling center to help you with your situation. They will have various resources to help you financially and emotionally.